REFLECTIONS

2021.12.09 01:35 canttell__ REFLECTIONS

So my dad passed away in 2017 and was a hoarder. I realized how bad his illness was when I was left to live in my childhood home by myself for a year. My mom kept the inside of the house spotless, but the giant garage, large backyard and basement was packed. When my parents split up the messiness started coming in the house. I have clear memories of him being sick and me trying to clean the house trying to feel in control. I’ve avoided my feelings about his hoarding for most of my life and after his passing I realized how much shame I feel about it still. My cabin is the next spot that my brother, partner and I are still trying to clean up. On top of that, my grand-parents are hoarders too and it breaks my heart to no end to think about their health and the fact that my mom will have to help clean another hoard someday. I literally finally joined Reddit because of this subreddit. I often feel alone and embarrassed about the hoarding that’s in my life, so I’m really thankful this subreddit exists. It helps me feel less alone and I feel like it will be a good support for me on my healing journey. Sending love and strength to us all. You are not alone.
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2021.12.09 01:35 Bubitalk I feel like you should check out the channel FastToon because there it's just horrible

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2021.12.09 01:35 matedeol Where and how would I use Lerp/LerpAngle/InverseLerp, Clamp, SmoothDamp any of this in myproject?

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2021.12.09 01:35 midlaneking400 The importance of decision making in League of Legends and how to get better

Before we begin, I’ll introduce myself. My name is midlaneking400 and I have been a challenger mid lane player for 4 seasons. My peak is rank 2 in NA.
As a kassadin player, my champion isn’t too difficult mechanically. The main thing that makes me stand out is my decision making. Decision making is one of the most important skills in League of Legends. Ever wonder why NA usually loses late game at worlds even though they’re up in gold? It’s mostly due to their poor decision making. Today I will go over the science behind decision making in video games and how to get better at making decisions.
1. The Loss Aversion Bias
It’s a scientific fact that when faced with a decision, people tend to avoid losses rather than chase gains of the same value. This applies to everything, including league. When you are playing the game, you will try to avoid losing rather than trying to win. The game will rely on your opponents inting rather than you trying to win lane and outplay the opponent. This leads to you being a coinflip player stuck with 50% wr. To try to avoid this. During a game ask yourself before you make a decision the purpose of your decision. Are you trying to win or are you just playing to not lose?
2. The less resources you have, the more important it is to make a decision
Pretty similar to point 1, when you are behind in gold and xp and they are going for baron, you will have to make a decision. Are you going to contest the baron? If not, are you going to try to steal it or push a different side of the map? In these situations, it is vital to make a decision, because soon enough you will just lose without ever trying to fight back.
3. Cost Benefit Analysis should be the basis of your decision making, but humans are affected by emotions when there is a lack of information or loss of something/someone
Throughout studies it has been shown that when making a decision, the most optimal way to do so would be through analyzing the costs and benefits of each choice. However, when humans have a lack of information (e.g. vision), they tend to make decisions based on their emotions. Similarly, the loss of something also leads to emotion based decision making, often off of tilt. If someone on your team dies or you lose an objective, it's important to stay calm and make a decision based solely on what is better rather than making a tilt play.
With that being said, thanks for reading this whole post. Hopefully I could help some of you guys improve at the game. I stream at twitch.tv/xdjames345 if you want to check it out for more informational gameplay!
Tldr
Avoid the loss aversion bias
The less resources you have, the more important it is to make a decision
When making a decision, always remain objective and try not to use emotions.
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2021.12.09 01:35 Ahlock Nice Graph BroNBro! Ty

https://monitor.bronbro.io/d/osmo-graph/osmo-stats-graph?orgId=2&from=now-7d&to=now
Well this has been a real treat to use
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2021.12.09 01:35 TheGuerillaAvenger Do Black Series Jedi Robes fit SH Figuarts Jedi or do you think it would be better to get a third-party robe?

I have a couple robes from the TBS Ben Kenobi release and a robe from the TBS release of Mace Windu. In addition, I have three SHF Jedi who look like they need robes (Revenge of the Sith Anakin and Obi-Wan and A New Hope Ben Kenobi). Would it be better to use the robes I currently have or should I look into a third-party custom robe?
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2021.12.09 01:35 Matlabguru Easiest Programming Languages to Learn

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2021.12.09 01:35 Neha_Kota If Social Media Can Be Unsafe for Kids, What Happens in VR?

Super interesting and eye opening article
https://slate.com/technology/2021/10/facebook-virtual-reality-metaverse-safety-children-jakki-bailey.html
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2021.12.09 01:35 SnapChatDmsTA I posted this on the other subreddit and thought you guys want to see a stupid tweet.

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2021.12.09 01:35 jericholic71 Its wheelie hard!

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2021.12.09 01:35 Sentilam Why does this happen to me every time I go out with friends?

I want to tell you something that is happening to me that I don’t know how or what to change about myself so that it does not happen anymore.
This is a bit of a long one but if you like to empathize with other people this is the post for you:
I am a friendly person and above all I respect everyone I talk to, but this happens to me every time I go out with a group of friends or I meet new people and when the outing is ending I end up being the center of attention but not in a good way but to be attacked by everyone with different ugly comments and they disrespect me.
I feel so bad when I get home knowing that such and such a person whom sometimes I just met! does not respect me anymore as a person. Next time I see them I know they won’t respect me.
Note: This only happens to me when I'm on a group outing situation and not in a 1-on-1 situations.
Maybe I am not valuing myself enough for others to value me? Or maybe I let pass ugly comments that people tell me when I really should have confronted or stopped them? Or maybe I’m just too kind to people that they feel that they’ve gained much confidence too fast and start bashing me too early?
I just ask myself what have I done to all these people that they’re bashing me or making disrespectful comments about me. Maybe I’m too submissive?
I don’t know, I just want you to know that it makes me really sad, I’m writing this right now after another one of those group outing situations happened.
and it makes me really sad to the point that I just don’t want to go out on group outings anymore.
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2021.12.09 01:35 HippoQanonamus ITAP of some flowers

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2021.12.09 01:35 SweetDee72 New radiator and thermostat but now truck is overheating!

About two weeks ago, I noticed my radiator was leaking. Its a Ram 1500 (2006). I kept topping up the fluid until I took it to garage today. Temp gauge never went over normal. Stayed cool, just messy.
They replaced both the radiator and thermostat today. As I was driving it home, I noticed the temp gauge half way between normal and high. Soon it was in the high and I stopped driving.
I checked under the hood: no leaks, fluid still good, fans were all working. Checked oil, looked good. The engine didn't even seem hot. When it cooled down, i drove it home with the heat blasting and that kept the gauge under High.
Any ideas? I'm taking it back tomorrow and really hope it's nothing expensive. Im already out $750 for today's work.
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2021.12.09 01:35 theskoop2 I pulled this off my arm tonight. Does it look like anything other than my skin? I had to kind of pluck it from my arm.

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2021.12.09 01:35 haggardinnovations lady you could do so much better #shorts

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2021.12.09 01:35 SadAcadia2747 Doesn’t college seem like a waste?

I really want to be done but I can’t because I have one semester left and I need 60 credits for the degree, it’s providing me with severe anxiety and stress. I hate it. I procrastinate because I hate everything about it. I just want this to be over with. Crying myself to sleep is not helping. No matter how much I study, the anxiety just creeps over me and I fail or nearly do. Any advice for this poor soul who feels like a failure every day of finals week?
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2021.12.09 01:35 EnvironmentalRub4452 Why do so many Christians hate or dislike the UN??

Every once in a while, when I’m scrolling through Tik tok I find some type of tiktoker making “revelations” about the UN and how it’s evil and it’s the end of times. I understand the fear, but I don’t think you should everything they do to the end of the times. I’m a Christian btw.
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2021.12.09 01:35 xxdeadmeat Is anybody else having crash issues 10:30pm cst?

I can't even load the game past the startup screen.
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2021.12.09 01:35 doughpat Acceptable condensate drain setup

The plumber that completed this job claimed he was going to come back and “properly finish” the job. Well, he’s since moved out of the state.
I’m not exactly sure what’s “wrong” with it—though it does look a bit janky and prone to leaks, perhaps?
It will be fairly acidic water, as it is the condensation from an on-demand gas Combi-boiler. (Our code does not require neutralization).
I’m redoing this sink with something a bit nicer (ie enclosed base) so I’m wondering what the proper way to plumb this in would be.
Any tips or links appreciated.
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2021.12.09 01:35 KarmitaAddict Thanks papa Elon 🤤

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2021.12.09 01:35 olialm Looking for producers!!

hey everyone, another wannabe "pc music" artist here! I've been writing satirical songs that over-exaggerate the theme (mostly LGBTQ things) and hence must not be taken seriously. I've been just doing it as a personal hobby. Now though, I've thought about creating an actual song with instrumental, and since I know nothing about producing I've been looking for someone that does! :)

main inspirations: Ayesha Erotica, Miss Nicole.

Looking to have a great time creating a bop that makes people laugh and dance!
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2021.12.09 01:35 Curious-Coyote-3444 Best place to grind ber

I've been maining a lightning javazon and I just got to hell difficulty, but since there are so many lightning immune mobs, I need 2 ber runes to make an infinity weapon for my merc. What's a good place to geond for them?
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