2021.12.09 01:28 Prestigious-Basil104 My parents have always preferred my younger sister.
So... this is more like a "rant" post. I know that the only way out of this situation I have now is to get out of my house asap, which, sadly, it's not an option right now.
In my house, we are two siblings; my sister and me. My sister is younger than me for a year and a half, so we don't have that much of an age gap. As far as I can remember, there has been this weird difference on the way both of my parents treat her, but my mother is the most obvious on this one. I kept quiet for approximately 9 years about this whole situation, but I always thought about it. To add more context, my sister is the typical disaster, in all contexts you can imagine. Her room and stuff have always been a dramatic chaos, she didn't do that well at school, and her social life... well, her friends always end up leaving her, and her boyfriends just suck. I'm not going to release her of the responsibility of her actions, but most of her chaotic life is my parents' fault.
I've always been the complete opposite, also kind of blaming my parents. My sister is 20 years old, and my mother keeps doing her laundry, cleaning her room and basically all of her chores, using the excuse that "the poor girl is studying college and on her internship (4 hrs a day), she doesn't have time to do anything". I'm studying two engineering degrees, I have a part-time job and I'm starting my internship (sadly, not in my job lol) on january, so, yeah, I don't excel at having leisure time. But that does not stop me from doing my chores and everything, of course.
Recently, this situation has been really obvious. I'm doing both remote work and school, while my sister has to go to both her campus and internship location. I start school at 7 AM, while she does at 10-11 AM approx. A week ago, I had to go to a class on campus at 7 AM. We had to leave home at 6:30 AM to get in time. I usually go to just one class all fridays at that time, and never, NEVER in life, my mother offered me either money to buy something at school or prepared me food. I really didn't mind that much, since for some reason I tend to be all nauseous in the morning, but I confess that having a decent breakfast would benefit my life like 100%.
The thing is, I woke up, and my mother was all dressed up, preparing my sister a MASSIVE breakfast. For a second, I was like "oh, she is making breakfast for the two of us", but nope. My mother never asked me if I wanted something for breakfast, and that's when I understood everything. I mean, I've always known that I'm not exactly the favorite daughter of my house, but to finally digesting it was... devastating. It was just a simple action that made me realize what I had in front of me for years. People outside of this type of situations are like "nah, don't think it is that bad", but trust me: you can really feel your heart getting crushed for a second.
To know that even if you have everything in your life sorted out, that you're not rude with your parents, gosh, that you are the complete opposite to your sister, things are always going to be the same for you is disgusting. For years, I thought: "What is wrong with me? Which is the terrible mistake I did for it to be worse than everything my sister has done in 20 years? What can I do, in order to be treated equally?". Obviously, as much as I asked my parents, as much as I begged, crying to get an answer. Even if it was something that they felt it would destroy me forever, I wanted to know. I had the right to know. But nope, I never got an answer. It always ends up with "you are crazy, we treat you better than her! Remember that time, 15 years ago, that we bought you two lollipops and she only got one?" and they tend to rub me off the fact that I'm in an Ivy League school (with a scholarship I won because of my almost 4.0 GPA and other academic achievements) and my poor sister had to go to community college because of all the money they are spending on me.
I'm done with this f situation.
But, at the same time, I came to the realization that this situation is NEVER going to change. Magic is not a thing, and neither are miracles. You have no idea how many times I've spoken to my parents about this situation, both in a civilized and uncivilized way. I've tried everything at my reach, but nothing works, so... my only option right now is to save as much money as I can, finish my degrees and go as far as I can from this people. Going to Canada? To Europe? Totally good options. To the south of USA? Absolutely. I know that at this point, the only thing I have is to focus my energy in those two things, and that living with this whole situation is not going to last forever.
Do you have a similar situation? Do you know someone who experienced something like this? Right now, I'd love to read it. Knowing that, somehow, I'm not the only one, will make my heart really happy.
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2021.12.09 01:28 Silverman7688 Growing my hair again so I can donate it again. I miss my short hair.
The only reason I was able to have short hair was because I explained to my homophobic parents that I'm doing it for a good cause(killing 2 birds with 1 stone). They don't know that I'm pan-sexual yet. Yeah I'm an adult now so I should be able to do what I want, but i can't since they're gonna disown me if they knew. Plus my parents heart won't take it if I told them. They ain't young anymore.
I used this to find hair salons near me that do hair donation hair cuts.
I know I wrote a post about donating my hair before. But for the people out there who want short hair you can explain to your parents about hair donation. And for the people who want long hair you can tell your parents that you're growing them out for hair donation. However I know some parents out there won't let their kids cut their hair no matter what.
Yes I'm working on moving out but it's easier said then done. when my parents are the type of parents who will have a heart attack if their kids move out. I'm not joking, my mother almost had a heart attack when her older kid moved out. I'm saving money currently and trying to find the right moment. Stay safe out there yall. Sorry for the long post, had to vent somewhere😅
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Just kind of curious as to what the best quality food is for a betta? A complete diet type food, preferably. I’ve been feeding my betta, Rascal, tetra bettamin worm shaped bites and I’m not sure if they’re any good for him?
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So my friend has an excessive amount of flowers on her island, but it’s only me and her digging them up. She and I would love some help. I mean there’s an excessive amount, like 2 of us would take hours. You’ll need to be put on as best friends of course, so I’ll be providing her friend code as well.
Her code is 0291-5112-1551
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SSS ID na lang po ba yung required ID sa Payoneer ngayon? Gumagawa po ako ng account ngayon tapos yun lang po ang hinihingi nila na ID. May SSS number po ako pero wala po akong SSS ID. Kung ilalagay ko yung number sa SSS, kailangan ko pa po ba ng picture ng ID?
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